This is happening!!! We are headed to New York!!!
This is a huge move for our family for a number of reasons. It's not the first time we will move cross country--we've done that twice before--but it has some definite significance.
First of all, Rick left Deloitte after twelve years, which in and of itself is significant. Deloitte has been very good to us over the years, and we are grateful for that job, and all it's done for Rick and our family. He's been able to work with some really wonderful people, and I know he's learned a lot. But at the end of the day, it wasn't the job he wanted to stay with for the rest of his life, and we knew we needed to move on. He's really looking forward to the challenge of this new position, and the company matches up with not only what he was looking for, but our family as well. Our family lifestyle had greatly dwindled over the past couple of years, with Rick being gone so much that sometimes a whole week went by without the kids seeing him. We were ready to find something that would have him home more, plus match his career goals, and we've found it!
As for the location...I am THRILLED!! The kids cheered when we told them we were headed back to snow--they've missed it terribly the last couple of years--and each one of them can't wait to get there. I think I'm most excited about the four seasons, and most especially the fall. The holidays just never felt quite right when it was 80 or 90 (or 100) degrees. I made a little list of all the things I was excited about in New York, and the things I would miss in Texas...
{NEW YORK}
-Four seasons!!!!
Fall leaves, pumpkin patches, apple farms, crisp mornings in the fall, snow, spring flowers, beautiful summers...
-The weather
The heat has just about KILLED me. Until you've lived in it, and experienced it, there is really no way to describe how oppressive the heat and humidity are, at least six months out of the year. I used to complain about the snow, and I'm sure I will again, but honestly, all I have do is remember what a Texas July is like, and I'll be cured.
-Being able to enjoy the summer with my kids
It's just too hot in Texas to go outside at all in the summer months, unless you're at the pool. With so many little kids, it's not really easy to take them to the pool, and especially not every single day. Whether you're in cold weather or hot weather, you're inbound part of the year, and I would much rather be inbound during the winter, when the kids are in school. I haven't been to the park in the summer for two years with my kids, and we're ready to go back!!!
-The country life!
Man, have I missed living where it's quiet! Our neighborhood is quiet, but to go anywhere, you're in major traffic, all of the time. I miss space, trees in my yard, two lane roads, and peaceful nights.
-Land
We plan to build our next house, and we are looking for at least 2 acres to build it on. After being SO SQUISHED on our Texas lot, we're ready for a big yard, lots of trees, campfires under the stars, a big treehouse, and plenty of space for the kids to run around, play, and explore. I took it totally for granted in Michigan, and now I'm grateful that we'll have the opportunity to have it again.
-Location
We will be close to SO many places to visit, and things to do, and we've already started making our list. New York City, Washington DC, Pennsylvania (Pittsburgh, Hershey, Philadelphia), Toronto, New England...and so many more. Most importantly, it's only four hours from Midland, and we all are looking forward to a lot more face time with our dear friends there.
-Rick's schedule
This should really be in the first spot, because it's the most important! No more busy season!!! ☺ Of course he will still be busy, and have busier times, but it won't be nearly like it has been. We already have plans to go skiing every winter, which we've never been able to do. I grew up skiing (although I'm terribly out of practice now), and I can't wait to teach my kids. He will be home more, earlier, and even though he will have to travel some, it will still be less than what we're used to now.
-Running
This might seem like a silly thing to have on my list, but the Texas weather has been a huge deterrent in my running goals. I've not stopped running, but I haven't been able to go the distances that I was used to before, because I can't do it in 90+ degrees--which it is more than half of the year, and I HATE the treadmill. I still run on it, but there are only so many miles I can run on it until I die of boredom. I have some goals that I would like to accomplish, and I'm looking forward to pursuing those, and getting outside more to run.
{TEXAS}
-Flip flops all year long
Okay, I'm sure I will still wear them a lot in NY, but I have to admit, it was so nice to never wear socks. Ever. Unless I was wearing running shoes. Ballet flats and flip flops are all I've worn for the past two years, and it will be an adjustment to wear more than that on my feet.
- REALLY GOOD Mexican food
Good Mexican food was pretty non-existent in Michigan, and since we've moved here, we've become totally and completely spoiled. I have not one favorite Mexican restaurant, but THREE. Leaving them will be very hard, because I know it just won't be the same. My kids have already requested their last meal in Texas, so we will be stopping at Pappasito's on our way out of town. It was our first meal here, and now it will be our last.
-Friends
We've made some good friends while we've been here, and it's always hard to leave that behind. We are making the most of our time left, and since it's summer in a couple of weeks, we'll have more opportunity to do so.
Yes, the NY list is a lot longer than the Texas list, which is a good thing. We knew we were supposed to move here, and as hard as it has been, and as glad as we all are to leave, we've learned a lot. We're hoping that this will be our last move for a long time, and we're all ready to put roots down and make a permanent home for our family.
Now our house needs to sell...quickly!!! We're ready to go!!